Memorial Day Weekend

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Photo by Alfred Eisenstaedt

“Ceremonies are important. But our gratitude has to be more than visits to the troops, and once-a-year Memorial Day ceremonies. We honor the dead best by treating the living well.” -Jennifer M. Granholm

MEMORIAL DAY IDEASThis weekend, we remember our fallen soldiers, honor their families, and show our appreciation and patriotism for the country we live in. There are many activities going on around Napa Valley this weekend, but if you are in another region, we encourage gathering family and friends for a backyard picnic or BBQ. Enjoy the sunshine, good food, friends, family and remember to wear your red, white and blue.

Cheers to our patriotic heroes and Happy Memorial Day Weekend from all of us at Bridechilla™!

BRIDECHILLA LOVES OUR TROOPS

Burger photo from What Katie Ate | Berries from Better Homes & Gardens
Bike photo Jennifer Dery

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Bridechilla™ Tip #27

Tip #27 – How to be a BRIDECHILLA™ – Keep calm and hire a planner.

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Here are  f i v e  solid reasons to hire a wedding planner and minimize your stress and maximize your chill on your big day.

Reason #1 – You’re newly engaged! At this point of your life you could be finishing up grad school, juggling two jobs, just starting a new one, or you might just have way too much on your plate to even think about taking on planning a wedding. Becoming engaged can come when you least expect it, so it might be hard to prepare for the wedding down the road while trying to maintain your current day-to-day life. But don’t let that be a detriment to your big day! Hire a planner and leave the vendor meetings, invitations, florals, and all that jazz up to them.

Reason #2 – Wedding planners more than likely have great connections with wedding vendors. This can benefit your budget tremendously. Instead of searching through hundreds of centerpieces and wasting hours of your own time, hire a planner to work around your budget and you’ll get the biggest bang for your buck.

Reason #3 – Planning a wedding comes with a lot of decision making. From colors to food, to the order of events to what kind of cake to have. Say you and your groom are butting heads trying to make a decision; having a third opinion (and a knowledgeable one) can save you and your future husband a quarrel and a big conversation. Hire a planner you can trust to help you with these decisions, so that you can both enjoy each other on your chill day.

Reason #4 – Of course wedding planners have TONS of experience with wedding etiquette and how to go about who to invite, who to leave off the guest list, where to seat that crazy uncle, and how to ensure every detail about your chill day goes smoothly and everyone has a great time. Hire a planner to ensure that every thing is done with careful consideration and thoughtfulness.

Reason #5 – Less stress, more fun. Wouldn’t you want some peace of mind on your chill day knowing that everything is being taken care of? Planning an entire wedding on your own might just be the perfect trick to becoming a “bridezilla”. And believe us, no one wants that. Hire a planner to be sure you can focus on being happy and being married.

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A big THANK YOU to all of our new readers & followers, we are so grateful for each of you! Please don’t forget to stop by our shop sometime and see how you can wear the chill.

Chill Etsy Finds: Bridesmaid Gifts #2


Since we had so much great feedback on our first round of Etsy Bridesmaid Gifts, we thought it was time to share round TWO of favorite Etsy finds for your chill gals, which we like to refer to as your Bridechilla™ Team. So, we’ve gathered a few more chill gift ideas for the girls in orange. Of course they will be sporting their Team Shirt, but we have some alternative gift ideas for the group of gals that help hold down the chill.  From monogram necklaces and iPhone cases to hair accessories and t-shirts, this Bridechilla™ Team will be fashionably chill with any of these choices.


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Rustic Pleated Clutch Purse by Lolo Sinclair of lolos

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Monogrammed iPhone Case by ToGildTheLily

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Personalized Initial Necklace by Lana at Lana0Crystal

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Charm Bracelet by Michelle at Nutmegjewelrydesigns

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Funny Bridesmaid Gift by Erin Duncan at wrenbirdarts (admit it, this one is hilarious!)

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Pearl Earrings in Monogrammed Box by Astrid by dutchpearl (Sweet packaging on this one!)

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Rose Hair Comb Becca at apocketofposies

And we absolutely love these handmade wallets (can also be coin purses) made by Kristina, shop owner of The Elegant Duck on Etsy. They can come in a variety of colors and are personalized with a letter for each bridesmaid. You can even add a little chill bedazzling with a jewel design.

What are some chill gifts you’ve thought about giving or have given to your bridesmaids?  Always remember that a Bridechilla™ Team Shirt would be a great gift that will remind your bridesmaids that there is no such thing as a bridezilla when it comes to your wedding. What better way to bring the gals together that to unite them with a fab piece of Bridechilla™ wear?

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P.S. If you are an Etsy Shop owner and would love to have your item featured on our Chill Etsy Finds, let us know and we will be happy to share it with our readers!

Bridechilla™ Tip #26

Tip #26 – How to be a BRIDECHILLA™ – Remember to capture a special moment with your mother!

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Hopefully our Bridechillas have remembered that Mother’s Day is right around the corner, (May 12th, for those of you who forgot! ;) ) and have found a special way to show your mother how much she is appreciated. And even if you haven’t gotten your mom a gift yet, we really do love these ideas on Little Inspiration as well as this necklace we came across on Lisa Leonard Designs. Even just a lunch date would probably make for a memorable Mother’s Day.

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Since we’re celebrating our mothers we just had to share some of these photo ideas for your chill day. If you’re looking to have a special photo with Mom, these are the perfect combination of sweet and fun.  And speaking of gift ideas, take one of your photos with mom to be framed and give it to her this Mother’s Day!

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Photo by Taylor Lord Photography 

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Photo by Mademoiselle Fiona Wedding Photography

A great mama-daughter photo.. this one deserves to be in a frame for sure!

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Photo by Edison Photography

And isn’t this just a dream? This is from a must see post on Style Me Pretty Canada. Perfect if you’re planning a Mother’s Day tea party or even a picnic!

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Photo by Rebekah Hoyt

Love this shot of the bride and her mother! What a great perspective, and so precious.
We’re sharing Bridechilla™ Tip #26 in honor of all the great moms out there. Don’t let a special photo with Mom slip your mind amidst all the other photos on your wedding day.. remember she will love to have a photo like this too! From all of us at Bridechilla, we wish you and your moms, grandmothers, and even mothers-to-be a very chill Mother’s Day!

“A mother is she who can take the place of all others but
whose place no one can take”
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Thank you to all of our new readers & don’t forget to stop by our shop sometime! P.S. Check out the Bridechilla Team tee, could be a great gift to the Mother-of-the-Bridechilla!

The Ultimate Cinco De Mayo Cocktail Recipe

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This Sunday you can count on this cocktail to add a bit of spice to your celebration. This holiday honors the victory over French forces at the Battle of Puebla on May 5th, 1862 by the Mexican Army, but here in the United States we toast our glasses simply to the victorious heritage and pride of Mexico. So, what better way to celebrate Cinco De Mayo than to toast with a drink that just shouts celebration?

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We hand-picked this cocktail recipe for your enjoyment this weekend; infused with spices and intense flavor, the Herradura Vesuvio Cocktail is the perfect way to say Happy Cinco de Mayo!

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  • 2 ounces Herradura Silver
  • ¾ ounce red pepper juice
  • ½ ounce Lime Juice
  • ¼ ounce Cholula hot sauce
  • ¼ ounce agave nectar

And then..

  • Rim a coupe glass with cayenne pepper and salt mix.
  • Shake all ingredients in a cocktail shaker
  • Shake hard and pour into the chilled coupe glass.

Recipe courtesy of today.com

CHILL TIP: Instead of pepper and salt mix, some recipes suggest rimming the glass with sugar. You can add more festivity to this recipe by rimming the glass with dyed sugar in colors that symbolize the Mexican flag.3

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8 Must-Have Chalkboard Details For Your Wedding

We’re just going to state the obvious right now: we love chalkboards. But who doesn’t? If you didn’t know this signature Off The Beaten Path Wedding detail, well, be prepared to start loving them just as much as us by the end of this post. Chalkboards can be found at any craft store and personalized to fit almost any wedding theme. Use them as a welcome sign at your guest table, as a “here comes the bride” sign for your ring bearers/flower girls, as a prop for your photo booth, as a table number sign, as a menu… the possibilities are limitless.

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PHOTOGRAPHY BY MATT EDGE

Just check out this Off The Beaten Path Wedding on Style Me Pretty and see all the ways chalkboards can be used. Don’t you love how versatile they are? Check out some of our favorite chalkboard ideas below to get just as inspired as we are about this fun wedding detail.

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1. Once Wed brought this awesome chalkboard globe DIY to our attention last week. This would be great for a couple who loves to travel or wants a destination wedding. See how they can go with tons of themes?

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PHOTO BY Erika Nicole Photography

2. What an easy way to have chair signs at the head table for the newlyweds. Could also say, “Mr.” and “Mrs.” or “I love him –>” and “<— I love her”. What will yours say?

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3. Photo booth props! Let your guests write a chill saying of their own to make your photo booth a lot more memorable.

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4. Chalkboards can also make great bar & beverage signs.

Photo by Paper Antler

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5. Talk about hassle-free signage to point your guests in the right direction!

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6. Absolutely love this chalk-styled map for a save-the-date. Very fun and artistic!

Map by Yours, Roxanne

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7. Touches of chalk can also be used for thank you favors. Aren’t these match boxes cute?

Photo by Lia Griffith

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8. Now this Chalkboard detail takes DIY to a whole new level. What a great photo backdrop this is and a beautiful piece of artwork to have on your wedding day. If you plan on sending thank you cards to your guests, this would be a great image for them to receive from your big day!

Enough chalk talk, now that you’ve had a look at our favorite ideas and uses for chalkboards, you can explore the possibilities for yourself! You can even make your very own chalkboard using chalk paint! We recommend going to chalkink.com for all of your supplies, and there is even a step by step on A Beautiful Mess that shows how to make your own chalk paint (all you really need is a piece of wood!). Be sure to purchase the chalk-paint (this stuff looks amazing on vintage windows!) because regular chalk does not work. Another great place to go next? Etsy. You can start finding labels and frames, and other ways to personalize this chill wedding detail. Happy chalking!

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Bridechilla™ Tip #25

Tip #24 – How to be a BRIDECHILLA™ – Have seasonal fruits as wedding favors!  cedd2e1d884e92ee539ff7dea39cc64c

This is a great tip for the DIY Bridechilla™ because it will give the opportunity to get crafty with packaging options. Using seasonal produce as a wedding favor is easy, chill, and delectable… not to mention it won’t blow the bank! You can buy your favors in bulk, package them in jars or burlap bags (if they’re small like cherries) or create a custom sticker with a personalized monogram to stick on them (if they’re something like apples or pears). Here are some of our favorite picks for favors categorized by season:

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Strawberries and cherries are great favor ideas for a spring wedding, and we just love the pops of bright red they bring to the day. You can bag them up or make a homemade jam with a customized label. Or, you can even give your guests a strawberry plant to grow at home. Either way, both of these spring treats make scrumptious favors… and great snacks for the ride home!

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Summer is just around the corner and if your wedding is too, you might want to start preparing yourself by knowing when the farmer’s market happens in your town. For a summer wedding, find produce like apples and berries. You can take either and make homemade jam or apple butter for your guests. Label with a cute phrase like, “we thank you berry much” or something even more clever.

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To our Bridechillas having a fall wedding, we love love love these organic herb plants as favors. Pick up herb such as parsley, sage, rosemary, or thyme. These will have an aroma that your guests will enjoy, and you can tie them with twine and a tag that says “let love grow”,  or just a simple “thank you”. You can definitely have fun with this one Bridechillas!

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Pears also make a great wedding favor for a winter wedding. Imagine how chill and stress free this guest favor is – order a custom sticker, stick in on, make a cute table with a sign reading, “take a pear” or “we make a perfect pear” and you’re set! The silly phrases are endless, but so are the possibilities of using seasonal produce for wedding favors. We’re only trying to inspire you to explore your options… now what seasonal produce will you transform in to a wedding favor?

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Bridechilla™ Tip #24

Tip #24 – How to be a BRIDECHILLA™ – Subscribe to the Bridechilla™ Blog!

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So you’re following us on Facebook, Twitter, and you’re even pinning away (have you checked out our Bridechilla board?) with us on Pinterest, which are all key ways to follow the chill, but here is one more way you can stay even more up-to-date with the inspiration: We highly encourage you to subscribe to our posts by e-mail! Beneath our Pinterest graphic on the sidebar to the right of this post, you will see a “Subscribe by e-mail” option, and that is where you will be able to enter your e-mail and keep up with our posts as well as be a part of our monthly newsletter that is currently in production. And don’t worry – we are not going to spam your inbox. We’re too chill for that ;)

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Thank you to all of our new readers & don’t forget to stop by our shop sometime!

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The lilacs have bloomed in Napa!

BRIDECHILLAS, if you are in the Napa area in the near future – we highly encourage you to stop by Off The Beaten Path at First and Main to see these beautiful blooms.

Not only is this shop full of inspirational details for your wedding (or any upcoming event that needs some chill styling!), but there are heaps of beautiful lilacs to go around. They won’t be here long, so go by and get some for your home, office, or just for someone special.

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Some lilac fun facts:

  • Lilacs attract butterflies… more reason to get these beautiful bouquets!
  • Lilacs were grown in America’s first botanical gardens. Both George Washington and Thomas Jefferson grew them in their gardens. Lilac bushes can live for hundreds of years, so who knows, a bush planted way back when may actually still be around
  • They are native to Eastern Europe and Asia. The colonists brought them to America in the 17th century.
  • Poet Walt Whitman thought of lilacs when Abraham Lincoln died:“When lilacs last in the dooryard bloom’d . . . I mourn’d, and yet hall mourn with ever-returning spring.”
  • On caring for your lilacs when growing them at home – keep the grass from growing around them. Try using a 16 to 24 inch circle of landscape cloth placed around the bushes and covered with bark or stone will keep the grass down.

Need directions to Off The Beaten Path at First & Main? Click here for a map to the shop! See you there…

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Bridechilla™ Tip #23

Tip #23 – How to be a BRIDECHILLA™ – Take a fun photo with your bridesmaids! It will reflect the fun and unique relationship you have together.

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Admit it, you L O V E these photos when you come across them. We do too and think they are awesome additions to have in your wedding album. Of course, we all love the picturesque shots in beautiful settings, with soft smiles, perfect light, and perfect hair… but how about having a little fun with your poses? We think there’s nothing better than a shot that will capture the laughs and love that you share for your bridesmaids. Whether it’s candid or planned, a photo like the one below is guaranteed to be one of your favorite shots from your chill day.

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Have fun with your Bridechilla™ team! Photos like this are fun to capture, and fun to look back on. They’re both funny and unique, and will be passed around for years.

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Have fun with props, too! These could always be used later in a photobooth for your guests.

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We also love these shots with the maid-of-honor, very cute and fun.

And how about a morning of the wedding shot? You can have fun with this one for sure!

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And how can we forget this one…

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Surround yourself with a fun bridal party and remember to capture the reasons why they are by your side on your chill day. Take this tip with an open mind and BE CREATIVE! We’d love to see some fun shots from our Bridechillas and their chill team, so share away!

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